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Trans-labeling has always seemed a bit confusing to me when I have taken the terms CIS, Trans, and Gender for their literal meanings. CIS...

For those who know me, they are aware of the personal challenges I have had with feminism. As a female, and I believe to some degree...

I was reading something by Finn Mackay, and I loved this statement “female masculinity is independent of men’s versions, with its own...

Just recently I was reading an interesting article on gender-affirming, the recommended approach that is to be taken as people move...

Born or perhaps just raised with a strong sense of responsibility, being protector and provider are second nature to me, it's where I...

This weekend I watched a panel discussion about the OFOS dynamic, and it reminded me of an article that I had written that is being...

I was reading a couple of posts recently, one was expressing their confusion over butch2butch attraction, the other was about...

It feels as though the issue of carrying labels has become an area of increased discussion, and I’m finding that these conversations are...

When you suddenly catch a glimpse of your reflection, are you surprised, is the image you see in that first moment someone that you...

We live on a planet that rotates on its axis every day, and, at the same time as it has spun on its axis, our planet has repeated the...

I recently endured, rather than celebrated, a significant birthday. Because of early career advancement (and dating aspirations), I had...

I’m a Stone Butch, I don’t yearn for male identity, but in my rejection of the feminine I, by default, acquire masculine characteristics....

My brother and I used to go for a morning ride on the weekends, he on a very fast Ducati, and I on a more comfortable Harley. He would...

I’ve talked about attraction and the many myriads of coupling that can exist, but most of us try to find some category to put each one...

I wonder what makes up a person’s "energy", that vibe that you feel immediately upon meeting them. Does it come from the way that they...

The cello is a beautiful instrument, the way that the spruce and maple display their grains as they make their way, curving to form...

I think perhaps often because I take the observer status, always ready to learn something new, and because learning requires a propensity...

It is interesting how outsiders, those who are not in the same “attraction bandwidth” assume what is attractive to others. I recall many...

I’ve been locked away in research and writing, and so being time-poor meant I needed to stop writing my blog. A little while ago I...